DIRECTOR’S STATEMENT ~ BETTER (2019)
BETTER is a coming out film -for disability.
14% of young people in the UK live with a chronic health
condition -a condition that they might initially hope will “go away” but over
time must incorporate into their identity. This moment, where a chronically ill
person decidesto reconcile their identity with their illness is a huge shift.
And it’s a shift that the people closest to them, their family, can struggle
with.
BETTER is a film about this struggle. It’s the story of two
sisters: a young woman, Kitty, who has accepted her chronic condition, and her
sister, Ruth, who still believes that one day Kitty might “get well” and live
an non-disabled life. I first explored
disability in my work with my producer, Celestine, in our BBC & BFI short
film ILL, ACTUALLY. All our contributors sent the same message: being disabled
is hard, yes, but what’s harder is the way that non-disabled people react to
you. Especially when they think they know what’s best –or worse, believe one
day your condition might disappear.
BETTER is a film that we hope will prompt
conversation around this. We want to ask -how can non-disabled people support
people with disabilities on their own terms?
BETTER is a film about how hard it is to accept that the people we love
might be chronically ill forever, and that we cannot control how they react to
that fact. We hope it will encourage conversation around the importance of
listening to disabled and chronically ill people and meeting them where they
are -as opposed to where non-disabled people might want them to be.